"Treat a man as he is and he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he could be and he will become what he should be"

Ralph Waldo Emerson

                            "If you treat a man as he is he will remain as he is. But if you treat him as if he were what he ought to be and could be, he will become what he ought to be and could be".

Goethe

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